Update: I’m too nice

8 approaches (93 in total now), 1x number, but seems like a flake (no Whatsapp? Quite unlikely).

Analysis:

My opening and the initial stacking and vibing is strong, but I think I overdo it a little.

I feel like I come across as too nice, too happy to be there.

Need to calm it down a little, actually smile a little less and be a bit more judgemental, let her qualify a bit.

Let’s see what happens with that number, if it is a flake, I take it as a confirmation of my analysis.

Quite stupid btw, should’ve asked/ confirmed, if she has Whatsapp.

PS: flake number girl and danish Christina were hot though and pretty young. Which is why Daygame is king, Tinder sucks.

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Note about Nightgame

It’s not for me.

Goals for the next time will just be to have fun, be social, flirt a little bit and take a number at best. Pulling is out of the question.

Every hour I spend in a smokey, loud club would be much better spent, with much higher ROI on the streets.

Stats update

85 approaches, 2more numbers, but flakes.

Analysis: need to remember Juggler in set: there need’s to be reason why you are taking the number. Find something she says and escalate on it/ compliment her on it.

Also C.’s advice regarding texting: date request is not casual enough. I make it seems like it is a special thing. This is partly because of my humor and me just being creative and having fun in spinning a yarn, but it’s probably not coming well across text.

More minimalism in you text: look at your old texts, openers were very simple.

Stats update and analysis

79 approaches since December.

My text game sucks, here’s why:

  • Too much investment on my side compared to her’s
  • Too nice and needy
  • Date requests only for the weekend
  • Forgot the other points…

Lesson: need to game like I just want sex, cut out the boyfriend vibes. Or to be more precise: my natural niceness will take care of the boyfriend vibes anyway.